Welcome to the boards. I'm sorry you find yourself here, but this is a good place to be.
First question -- have you read either Divorce Busting or The Divorce Remedy? If not, I'd find a copy of either book and start reading. (I recommend TDR first, personally.)
Originally Posted By: Hlpmeplz
Is this normal to have this rush of emotions come flooding back out of the blue just when youve convinced yourself you just might be moving on pretty well?
Yes, it is normal. You might want to look at an discussion thread about detachment here, and Livestrong.com has a good article about detachment here.
Other board veterans will probably post some advice later. You might want to summarize your situation to date.
* How old are you and your wife? * How long have you been married? * Do you have any kids? How old are they? * When did she "drop the bomb" on you? What has happened since then?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
