Thanks everyone. I think I am mostly in shock. Even though I have been sleeping well, last night I tossed and turned from 3 am on. I know I shouldn't be surprised and nothing says this is going to be some great long lasting relationship.
Ex told the boys on Thursday and asked them not to tell me as he wanted to(gee, so nice of him). He told the girls Sunday along with her two girls. He asked all of our kids to be in the wedding, which they all said no or as D10 told me, not in a million years.
Selfish little bubble they both live in.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory