i agree with the above. eventually she's going to have to stop taking his calls. she's a married woman, he should understand that.

at some point, she might need to take legal action against him to stop him from trying to contact her.

i wouldn't make any ultimatums right now, though.

you are doing great, tristan. stay cool.

me 30
WAW 30
M 8 yrs
T 9.5 yrs

3 cats 9,6,6


W left 5/31/09
W stopped most contact 06/26/09
W filed 7/22/09
(haven't been served)