ex just doesnt seem to want to understand that son still doesnt want to welcome wifey with opened arms, we will see on that one, for now I just keep the peace. Also auntie phoned me and wifey had phoned her for her shopping list as they do aunties shopping, whilst on the phone she commented to auntie how well myself and ex are getting along, maybe she is seeing I am not the woman from hell he made me out to be, she also disclosed that they do not go out now and she feels like a recluse, this is due to having no money and also told auntie that they wouldnt be buying xmas presents this year as they are totally broke, oh what a shame after all the money ex had it is sad to see that they are now having to live like I did, ie not knowing where the next sandwhich was coming from, I think there is more on the horizon very shortly, this we can only pray for