"No more. I told Marc that from now on I will not be asking him if he's going to his dad's. I will assume he is not unless I hear otherwise. I will assume that I have him 24/7/365 from now on. Gabe can go have his happy little life of freedom from parenthood and all responsibility and I will just have to live with the knowledge that he will receive his just punishment for all of this in the afterlife."
This sounds to me a lot like acting out because you are pissed. You are hurting yourself and your son. Stick with the custody arrangements. It isn't your business how XH spends his time with DS as long as he is safe.
