Hi everyone!!! Thank you all so much for responding!!! I can't tell you how much I appreciate your help & support!!!!
My ex's best friend has told me that this woman is a passive aggressive & also a sociopath. SCARY!!!
I really do think that she wants me to respond to this email so I can defend myself b/c she knows what she is saying are all lies. But, I'm not going to give her the satisfaction! I agree with all of you & I will not respond to her. I think that will get to her more than anything. If I do respond, she will just keep it up & that will be a game she likes to play.
Virginia, thank you for telling me about the laws in Asia, I wasn't aware of that. She will be 51 next month & my ex will be 50 in Feb. so hopefully that was a lie too. Why in the world would she bring that part up to me!!! When we were married I didn't want my husbands x to know anything about us & what we were doing. Besides, my x is her 4th or 5th marriage, so I would think that would be a red flag also.
I have a strong feeling my x is leading a pretty miserable life about now. I don't know that for sure but who wouldn't be living with someone like her! I'm sure he feels like he is in prison about now & may not know how to get out.
Again, thank you all for being here for me!!! I have a file in my outlook titled EX & I keep all correspondence from him, which has only been about getting his things of the house or sending him something & that was summer of 2008, all the other emails have been from OW.