Hi nlt. Not only is she vicious, a little bit crazy and completely off the wall - I suspect she's also telling fibs.

I've had quite a lot to do with International Adoptions from Asia and they have very strict age limits for parents - it would be very rare indeed for a couple over 35-40 to be acceptable adoptive parents for a South East Asian baby - they may be eligible to adopt an older child (over 10), but not a baby.

The woman is crazy and you are clearly taking up as much or more space in her head than she is in yours.

It's been my experience that people who display and express such inappropriate anger will be their own undoing.

You keep on your journey - you are growing strong and independent ... she's a long way down on the spirirual and individual growth curve.

Ignore her - that will bug her more than any response from you ever could.

Take care, V

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.