Another waw/mlc and I need support

[cyclone]

Thanks for the encouragement. I've been focusing a lot on the kids. S7 plays soccer so we have that a few days a week. I've been doing a lot more cycling, something I used to do before we were married. I'm having a hard time doing things by myself because I never know when she'll be around. I have to find a good sitter but since she is in the house (sometimes) it's odd. I play in a community band one night a week but it's not something new, been doing it for 10 years now.

I think I'm doing pretty well most of the time and then something like yesterday happens. It was nice for us all to be back together but then today she just called to say that it felt too much like before and she needed to get away so she won't be coming home tonight. I'm trying not to take it personally but it is still really hard.

Financially things have been ok. She went through a bout of big spending a month or so ago. It has slowed down to a managable level. I am prepared to move things into a separate account once things get to a certain level. Right now we aren't there.