Thanks Dia and Gardener. The wedding ring coming off was the 1st 180. Earlier today, I did another - S had baseball game and I usually take S and come back to pick up W and D. Not today. On the way out the door, W asked if I was coming back (for W and D). I replied with I don't know, I'll let you know. Once there, I sent her an instant msg that I was staying at the field - also asked her to pull some stuff out to thaw for dinner. Her response: Lthat's fine."
I don't have much hope this all ends in us staying together. So, focusing on me and the kids.