I worry about that too. It's an extra stress for sure.
Mish, are you into church at all? I know some people aren't, and I'm cool with that, but just I know there are some churches like mine I go to now that will do anything to help out other members. A woman in my Sunday School class today was sharing how she was so overwhelmed about everything & money and all when her H developed cancer a few years back & they had to stay in a hospital hundreds of miles away. A relative of someone from our church in another town where they had to go for treatment offered to let her & her H stay with them as long as they needed (and it wound up being 16 months)! Churches can offer a lot of help & support; and just knowing that I don't feel completely alone b/c of them helps me out a lot. If you're not interested, then never mind.....
