Am I at this stage?

[TrentC]

Good for you Trent! I feel like when they are noticing the physical changes we are making a huge step!

I would agree with that.

I've been trying to lose the weight for 6 months and haven't been able to and now that I have, he's like "what?" "why now"...hmmm probably gets him thinking and wondering...I love it!

Strictly speaking, I'd keep that under your hat. it's good that he notices the change, but you'll be happier in the long run if you don't let him see how his reactions appeal to you, or he may decide that you're doing it just to win him back.

Coming from a woman, cologne is definitely going to do wonders for you...mmmm...it would for me! Good luck!

I'd say the same thing about a sexy new outfit. It doesn't have to be trashy, but something that says "I'm happy with myself and I want people to see it!"