My WAW rang up to speak to the kids and me, and she was very pleasant and nice on the phone.
She asked if I wanted her to come with me to my Docs appt. I told her I do - at least it would allow me to spend some time in her company. And she said that she would then come with me - a big surprise.
She seemed in an approachable mood and so I asked if she wanted to come out to see a local attraction tomorrow. She asked who was going and I confirmed that my parents were not going. This would remove one of her stumbling blocks for not going. She said she would think about it.... Her choice.
The bad news was that she went to a fair today for half an hour. She said she is getting too old for such stuff. I only hope that at some point she had a thought 'The boys would have enjoyed this'. But I can't control that.
Keep looking for the baby steps; She asked about my day. She is still concerned with my health. She is going to spend some time with me - nothing too exiting, but it is a start possibly. She asked about ill S7's health - she didn't yesterday.
Question. Should I tell her where I am going on Thursday - or has the unknown put a seed of doubt in her mind. I am inclined to tell her when I return from my poker game.
Regards, Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.