consider how she is talking to you and treating you a test,
she is testing you, subconsciously at any rate but she is testing you, do you notice how her moods change: one time she's texting you about how your little one is walking, the next time she is asking you somewhat nicely if you can watch the kids and then another time she is swearing at you like a crazy person threatening you?

Testing you.

Now you know, every time she is on the phone with you or talking to you in person, she is testing you, look it up if you don't believe me, it's a regular thing that occurs. She is testing you, so you know this now, just smile whenever it happens, both internally & externally, you have no reason why you can't pass these tests now, they're no longer secret, she is seeing how strong you are and you are going to show her that you can handle her and any situation she tries to throw at you like a strong man can.