my W doesn't regret her affair

[bluerain]

Hi future, I think that I would be really surprised to find out that she had dropped the bomb.

But that being said, try, try, try to stay a little detached! Stranger things have happened. And if she scares herself, she might pull-back (probably only temporarily) but just remember that this is part of a long, long process, that for you guys at least is heading in the right direction!

ClingingtoHope, it seems like your sitch is still fairly new, so its totally normal for your W to be acting like that. Give DBing time- it works on many, many levels.