I've always interpreted the stand off behavior as some sort of defense mechanism. WAS are very interested in maintaining appearances and making us know nothing has changed. Sure there is some deep routed psychology behind it somewhere.
Oh, definitely, Bart. I see her right behind those cold dead eyes: She's afraid to come out and play because she'll be damned if she's gonna be hurt again!
Originally Posted By: CBart
Flowers were nice. Not sure you had much of an option. You would have looked like an a$$ if you gave to everyone but your W.
You're right of course: I couldn't not bring her flowers as well. Among other reasons, my beloved step-kids are always watching.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac