Quote: I, as a typical woman, needed much more time to stew it over and resent and make him prove it to me, before I was willing to put my heart on the line again.
I don't know if it is a male/female thing. I know men who stew with the best of them! I do know, however, that this is a characteristic of mine. Not one I like at all! Been working on changing it and have seen some real benefits for myself as a result. If it is a female characteristic, I sure would like to see us lose it!
MPT
This is/was one of my problems, stewing in the bitter juices of my anger for whatever she has done. Looking back, that was a waste of energy and time. I could have used that energy elsewhere. This will sound silly but in the past, if I were mad at her, I would punish her in bed. That is to say take her to the edge and stop. Bring her back, stop a couple times and then boooom!!! By doing that, I felt I got my revenge and she got..... I wish I had done that in the past couple years rather than stew.
Honey. I know how I will/am changing and will put it in writing soon. As far as that steak is concerned, if it were put in front of me right now, I would gobble on the baby(in more ways than one)and take us to the sky..... Uhhggggh. This morning was hard. Aside from the mass confusion, the object of my fetish were looking good. I couldn't take my eyes off. She rolled her eyes and went about her biz. I just wanted to...... Back to work kid.
I do know, however, that this is a characteristic of mine. Not one I like at all! Been working on changing it and have seen some real benefits for myself as a result. If it is a female characteristic, I sure would like to see us lose it! 
