mar, this all sounds wonderful! and i pray for your success.
i do have a question though: if you are able to finally reconcile with your ex, are you going to accept him for who he is, or still be bugged about being "sex-starved?"
i would say that in most of these WAS cases, there is seldom a valid reason to destroy these perfectly decent marriages. i get so sick of people talking about their feelings.
no wonder the LBS eventually becomes the WAS and wants to move on. hopefully, they will then look for someone a lot more stable so they can have a marriage that is not so fragile as to be destroyed by their spouses silly "feelings."
