Follow on to that GIMA ~~~~ One of the benefits of having your sisters on here to bounce things off is that we more or less know chick psyche. And one thing a woman can do is read some tea leaves (body language, facial expression, a look away ~~~ or at least we try). We take that info along with what we say and pig out on the interpretations. The less you say, the less you react, the less you give her to calculate with ~~~ the better. She can't figure out three moves ahead of you if she has no intel. And without that, my friend, she loses some of the control she unfairly claims in this R. You need some control, too. When you take it, she'll respect it - even if she doesn't like it - and that will put her into a situation of needing to effectively communicate with you (not just mindread or dictate).
Does that make sense? Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
