She hands you the card in person, "Thanks." Open it later, not in her presence. Say nothing more about it. Put it away.
She leaves the card for you and you find it, open it, put it away (office drawer, briefcase, whatever) and say nothing.
Do not allow her to take your temp. She's been using that against you, I think. She's known that you want her, love her, worry about your M succeeding. Take that info away. Leave her in the dark.
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