I hear you Gardner, maybe it is very immature and highschoolish but I do feel it gnawing at me that some guy at work is spending "quality time" with my W and that something needs to be said. I am holding off for now to see what transpires but maybe if S happens, that would be the time. Or maybe it would be better from a DB standpoint to act like I could care. Very confusing, I have been a "Nice Guy" in our relationship and I know that I need to man-up in a lot of areas moving forward but don't want to make any stupid mistakes.