The main reason I can't leave her is because I am not willing to leave our house when this is her A. It probably won't matter though because as you have said before, she is probably planning on leaving anyway. She did say that before I confronted her about the A that she had the apartment lease papers but had not signed them because she was confused over the positive feelings she had but that after our "talk", she didn't see anyway this could be worked out now.
I could leave her on an emotional level if she were to stay here and continue A. I am pretty sure that she does not have any intention of ending it anytime soon at this point because after confronting her, I would have expected some sort of apology or acknowledgment of guilt by now if she did. What I do know is that she has changed her phone lock code (saw her enter it last night and it was not the same). Based on this, I would say she still intends to pursue A.
I do have one question, she is spending significant money taking personal interest courses and talking about how this could lead to a great and fun new career for her. She is very successful in her career (high paying job/trajectory for growth is very good) and it required a significant educational investment for her to get where she is. She has lost interest in almost all of her other hobbies as well. Is it possible that this is MLC?
