I too consider sandi2's posts immensely important and insightful. I found her correspondence with BigJohn in the thread he has on the Walk away spouse forum one of the most important finds of this site.
I would highly suggest you guys read through this one, as she has so many insights that are going to apply to your sitches..
sandi2, I can not say enough how your posts have helped me understand so much about my own sitch. I humbly offer my thanks to you, for all you have done on this site and helping other people.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
