Moving on with my life!

[Startingover2]

I had to give myself a pat on the back yesterday for not getting too sucked back in.

Exh is so good at making you feel sorry for him and stroke his wounded ego. Yesterday he was here for a visit and was venting about his D15 who is pretty much out of control. Her mother lets her do pretty much what she wants and exh has really no say so. Oh, he tries but it falls on deaf ears. He was telling me what was happening to her and said I was the only one he could talk to about this. Um, yeah right. So I gave my opinion on what he should be doing but in the back of my mind was saying "what the heck do you think? You have been pretty much checked out as a dad for the last 15 years. Why do you think you should have any credibility now?"

So after he leaves he sent a text "Thanks for talking with me today. I am so worried about D. Nice to know we can have a civilized conversation."

I didn't respond and haven't heard from him since. I feel bad about his D15 too but I don't know if I should be his shoulder. He has his unstable gf for that! LOL

Off to church!