W and kids just left for church. Just don't feel like being around her right now. I will get over that. I do feel guilty since kids are going, but this is not my regular pattern.
Ok, I am as comfortable as one in my sitch that there is probably not an A. Until I see evidence/indicators, I don't need to chase that phantom rabbit.
I fully understand being tough without being a a$$. I have pulled way back, and probably a small bit rude to her this weekend, only to the extent I do not initiate conversation and give her short answers to her questions.
She still has her wedding band on. Not dwelling on it, but it is an interesting observation.
I think as far as having a lets get ready for D talk, I should, at a minimum, sit down with her to go over all our finances (she does this - I know, I should not have allowed this or burdened her with this). And, I think I need to take over paying all the bills, running the financial end of the household. She needs to focus on getting "a" job, not "the" job - I will suggest, but not push hard on that.
