I hear ya Saffie. And I understand where you're coming from.

And you're correct, we're in the same boat. OM in my sitch is a POS that cheated on his W 4-5 times that she knows about and since they live 1000 miles apart, you know there's more.

And it seems my W does now get the fact that OM was just a calculating predator. She said to me recently that once I told OMW, he immediately began distancing himself from her and all the B.S. he told her about being soulmates and wanting to marry her were just more manipulation.

Ok, I'll let it go. No more need to beat me up on the idea.

BTW, last night was EXCELLENT. Friday night when we took S17 to S21's school, W and I had large latte's with extra expresso in them. W didn't get to sleep until about 3 am Sat morning. So last night she was really tired. We went for a drive yesterday afternoon to enjoy the fall colors and when we got back, we sat on the couch watching some football.

W laid her head on my lap and fell asleep. And it was the best feeling EVER.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.