I guess the central question that needs to be answered is, what do you want to do?
If you want to roll the dice and see if more time can change things, I can help with that. If you think it's hopeless and are ready to throw in the towel, we can help with that end too.
BTW, I understand completely about the rings. When I took mine off for that 2-3 month period, I was in the same place. If she didn't want to even TRY, then I was not going to have that reminder on my hand.
And I'm right there with ya in the not understanding. I will never understand how someone can put kids through a D without exhausting every last option to see if it can be worked out.
I know I've asked you this before and you've said no, but are you sure there's not another man involved? Not trying to rub salt in an open wound, but everything your W is doing sounds a little too familiar to me.
Keep your chin up. Your kids will need you more than ever in the coming months. They need a stable parent, and right now, you're it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.