I wouldn't go to H's unannounced either - I'm afraid of what I might see. My furniture with tramps clothes inside it - my photo frames with the bitch's face staring back out at me. *shudder*
LOL..... I can so relate to that!! However, my kids tell me there is very little evidence of her there.....at leastin sight; a photo glamour shot that she gave him last year for his b'day(not glamorous-just tacky) and a toothbrush. That's it.
Nell, interesting reaction from H re filing in the UK. His response 'long term' is also interesting. Why not in the short term?
I know where H's place is. He very excitedly shared all the photos of it with me when he bought the place but that's it.
The trust issue is just that H feels he has been hurt by me in the past and was unhappy. He is scared to trust me cos it'll just happen again.