Yeah, I'm still here but trying to get to bed. I was up at 05.20hrs this morning and yet have managed to fill the day just mooching!
I think that you are doing really well with H. I see positives in each of your posts and he's defo interested. Will just be curious to see what happens at the time of renewal on the lease for his BP (bachelor pad) ... my H's is up in Feb and I will be interested then too - maybe that's my subconcious time line. Who knows? Like you, I can't call that his home and each time he says it I cringe inside. I always say "your place" but never home. I think that H probably has made his place quite homely but not with the woman's touch on it - unless he has allowed ow to interfere when it drops in from interstate. I hope not.
I have noticed the signs of H not being here in the way he dresses and yesterday when he arrived, his boardies had not been ironed even. I would never have let him out of the house like that but right now, he just doesn't care. Tell tale signs of a man who is happy in his new world? I think not.
So ride that footplate girl and get the camera snapping! Anything that you can do to engage H will be great news. Got something for you in the burrow! On it's way.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"