I have just read your posts and I am thinking again that I have had more positive contact and interactions with H since I gave up the R talk, detached and presented as a more happy, upbeat and contented person.
I won't play nursey but I will be observing from the sidelines. I have never been invited to his place so I won't go there until I'm invited. It seems H is having to learn to trust that I won't pressure him or get annoyed when he rejects my invitations.
I think Sanderika is right. He is trying not to feel guilty so he is trying to get me to initiate proceedings but I won't. Perhaps he wants me to make the decisions for him. Time will tell......
