Called the H late tonight because I was bored. Son and his girlfriend were downstairs so I'm staying up until she leaves and past now. Played way too long on FB. Long story short. The H has had 2 phone calls with the friend today over whether or not she'd be down at the lake at some point to get the treadmill.
She always has some latest drama which gets him and me feeling sorry for her. I talked to him earlier in the day and he told me about the first phone call. Tonight I was telling him how I felt bad about what has happened to her lately, blah, blah, blah. She called him tonight to tell him she'd definitely wouldn't be done there. Of course there are never short calls her rambling on forever and him just letting her ramble according to him.
So anyway he's accusing me of checking the phone records again. I told him I didn't. (After we hung up tonight I did check and the records and both phone calls were over 40 minutes). I guess being tired gave me more backbone tonight. I told him that I just couldn't understand how he doesn't seem to be able to understand this is a problem for me. He claims once we get the treadmill back - there should be no more contact. Now granted - the contact is not every week or anything like that.
My H thinks that somehow I shouldn't have a problem because all that was months ago and things are different now. That my asking him to tell me when he's going to call means he has to ask my permission. Which I'm sorry I just don't get how him telling me equates to asking for my permission. I just find it unsettling to hear about a phone call after it happens. I don't know - am I being unreasonable at this point? When she called back tonight, why couldn't he call me and just let me know?
We're supposed to talk tomorrow when he gets home. Any advice you have - I'm all ears.
