I hope that you enjoy your time away and can maybe 'relax and not think' about it all for a few days.

One thing that I have found out when I talk to my H is that when he is confused about something to do with us and the M, it does not help to talk to him. He has no idea what it is that he wnat or what he is thinking one way or another. I just wait it out.

That maybe a hard thing to do at times, even for me, but sometimes it can benifit it too. Byt he time that he knows what he wants, he can at least state what it is to me. If I push him then it usually ends up bad.

I will check back in with you and see how you are doing.

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09