thanks for the ideas but im not one for revenge like that lol...i think it all happens on its own, the whole "what goes around comes around" theory...look at how psycho mistress basically got herself in trouble! i did nothing at all to provoke her and she flipped on her own and gave me enough evidence to nail her for it!
in fact, im more of the kill'em with kindness..i even let h come in the other day when son wanted him to, i am nothing but polite, i think when im nice, it makes it harder for him to be mean and makes him wonder why he is so bitter towards me when in fact we all know i never did anything to him!
tomorrow is his 30th birthday, today is the anniversary of when we got engaged. so sad but really im fine.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
All in all, I agree with your post. Anything that they get needs to be plain and simple fall-out from the rotten decisions that they have made... and I expect said fall-out to start arriving very soon. I guess with the OW getting in trouble, it already has!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
i have my moments when i reflect on my marriage, but really, im fine.
will write more later.hope u are well lost in iowa!
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Have not seen you on here for a long time. How is things going?
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
