I support that idea. If he's connected to OW, he's got the door open and he's taking you for granted. If all he's left alone iwth is some bimbo with a fiance that he only texts, a real woman who loves him and is the mother of his child is gonna look way better. But only if he's forced to choose. Let him spend a lonely birthday and feel the pain! The only cake-eating he'll do is at his party for one.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship