You know what? I've been over on the Divorce Busting site for the last hour or so reading advice, etc. It seems that my advice to you is in direct conflict with what Michele advises you should do.
Now. Were I in your shoes, I'd be more inclined to follow her advice than mine, given that she's been doing this professionally now for somewhere around 20 years.
Soooo.... I shall respectfully bow out of your thread because I think, though I have good intentions, my advice may end up causing you more harm than good.
However, I will keep checking it to see how you are doing.
