Newbie with almost WAW - Need Advice

[Gardener]

I have to think any woman would ultimately want to know that her H had the spine to stand up and fight for her.

High Schoolish but so TRUE! Exhibit your Testosterone!

why not. as you said, take a walk over to his office, he already knows who you are but introduce yourself anyway and say, "Hi, I'm H. Mrs. HBH's husband and whatever is going on has got to stop right now." Then walk away before before he begins to act like nothings going on.

I agree. I did the same thing 3 weeks ago by visiting my wife's landlord. He had been putting the moves on her and even pulled a couple of "peeping tom's" to the point that my wife stapled sheets over all her windows. Went to see him unannounced with my stepson,31 and very politelyi and innocently put the friggin' fear of God into his slimey ass.
Gucci gave me hell for it but I found that many feelings die slowly, but protectiveness is still very strong.