Had a really busy day. Well last few days. Things are getting better I guess, Wife has been above just nice. She bought me some instant breakfast mix on her own because "I know you like then and they were a good deal" I have been busy with my wood business and helping out my uncle. Today I was out in the garage working and wife came out and said the dishwasher keeps falling out of the counter. I went in to look at it but told her I am not the Maytag repair man but I will see what I could do. Well it was an easy fix and I was standing there I looked at wife and she gave me a thank you kiss. I think I am doing better with this detachment thing. I realize that half the time the things I wish wife would do are really as Saffie told no code "rubbing her nose in it" Yes being a LBS was the biggest betrayal and hurt that I have ever experienced. BUT I guess that it was something that happened and it needs to be left at "a lesion learned" and I really do need to move on. I AM TRYING....I am doing better. Part of what I am afraid of is that just before W had her A I talked to W sister, I paid for both of them to go and have a mud bath. I told her sister to talk to W because I was afraid she was depressed about losing her job and she was vulnerable and I was afraid some guy might come around when her guard was down and take advantage of her. They did talk but it really lead to nowhere. W just told her she was unhappy and did not know why... Then a few weeks later she met up with the OM. What I am getting to is part of my fear about detaching is that especially because we have not really "connected" no pun intended. She may think I have given up if I don't pursue.. Well got ta go update ya all more soon Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
