Stardust, I too have an H who will become suspicious if I partake in some of the GAL activities suggested on this board. Going out to lunch with friends, to a move, or to a show with my girlfriends is about all I can do withou raising some serious jealousy questions. I choose to not play with that at the moment. His distrust issues are what has us where we are right now.
Just work on you and making positive changes no matter the outcome!
BIM
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
