UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[brownidmom]

He doesn't miss you less, he is just getting used to being away from you. If you work really hard on yourself and be very smart in how you deal with it, it is possible to change that. Next time he comes home, give him something to miss. No R talk/ It would be okay to to talk about some history between the two of you probably, good memories I mean. Just try not to let it lead to an R talk. STAY AWAY from that for now as long as you can.

Chin up, you are doing great things for yourself. I don't talk about my M to my friends at work either. I would feel like I could never get away from it if they knew. I have selected only a chosen few friends to confide in, those who can be discreet and will have my back no matter what happens.

Take this time alone to make yourself the best you you can be, Nell!