You did for your wife what you would have done for any good friend. That shows compassion and I think you took the high road in helping her out. She might not say anything but I am sure she appreciated it regardless of the situation right now.
You are much further along than I am and I respect how you have handled your situation. It might not look great now but as you have told me, you can only control yourself and be the best you.
Put your head up high not only for what you have attained for yourself but all the people that you have given your time and advice to.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10