Well to make a long story short. My husband left me about 4 weeks ago. We have two little boys so we have been in contact about 3-4 times a week. We have had ONE talk since it happened about 2 weeks ago and he basically said that nothing has changed and he has no desire to come home. I have been absolutely devastated through this, it was a complete bomb when this all went down. I didn't see it coming from a mile away. So after going to counseling I have realized there are a lot of things that I need to work on and change. I have been doing that the past 4 weeks and I feel have made tremendous leaps. So yesterday my H comes over to see the kids and we hang out for a bit and it gets on the topic of us somehow. He goes on to tell me how much I've changed and how he has seen a new me come out of this. And he talked about the future a bit and his plans for renovating our home and buying a new truck so we both have nice reliable vehicles, etc. He then came over to me and gave me a huge hug so huge that it lasted about 2 1/2 hours. We cuddled and kissed and one thing lead to another. After it was all done he had plans later in the evening so he got ready to go and kissed me and told me he would talk to me soon. And that's it. Its been 24 hours, I haven't heard from him and I don't know what to think. Does this mean I'm in this stage of piecing back my marriage? Thanks!


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14