Last resort technique, what to say?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'm sorry, I misunderstood. My advice was based on the assumption that she was.

Puppy

[billclay18]

I hate that she has this much power over me, making me so depressed, like a blob sometimes. I feel like the future is so uncertain. Any tips on taking the power back?

Tips? Yes...let her go and focus on yourself and living your life as if she weren't coming back. What would you be doing? How would you enjoy your new found freedom? Whatever it is...do it. It worked for me. Has it changed my sitch? No, I'm still headed for D, but I'm OK with it. I'm in charge of my life and I'm living it for me.

Re-read your last post as if your W were reading it. Is this a man she would want to come back to? No. OK...so be the man she or any woman would want.