True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

Wow, the Lindy Hop - will he have to toss you in the air and swing you between his legs? Or maybe that's the Jitterbug.

MLJ - Thanks for posting. Remember, you're still the Queen and the skank is still, well, the skank. Have you thought of just kicking him out of the house and see what he does with that?

I sent my L an email Wednesday telling him H and I have had no contact since August, the money H cashed from his retirement over the summer is just about gone, he's abandoned all house upkeep/repairs since moving to NC in May, and I will need mortgage/bills help starting mid November. I asked if he or H's L can get in touch with H to make sure he will start paying his share.

As of today I've not had a response from L. Now I have to deal with an AWOL L as well as an AWOL H? How rude not to even acknowledge receiving my email!

On another note, I've been on FB for a few months. I just have a few friends, including H's mom and sister, but I rarely post to them. H was on years ago when it first started up. In fact, I'm sure that's how he and OW began their EA. Then he stopped -hasn't been on in almost two years.

Tonight H posted two comments to his sister. I can see it since I'm her "friend". Very weird to see something he wrote when I haven't spoken to him since early August. She was complaining about the new News Feed - he agreed and said he can't figure out the new format. I so want to post "Well, can you figure out how to get a job and pay your half of the bills?" Would that be bad DB'ing?

I'm reading Pat Conroy's new book - South of Broad. He says "marriage is an institution that can breed hostility and indifference when none is justified". Hmmm