Someone on this board once wrote : "are you willing to give up 2 or 3 years of your life to reach that 50th wedding anniversary?" For me, the answer is yes. Only you can answer for you.
For me the answer is most definitely yes. Two years until we can divorce if I don't file early so I can easily wait that long.
I believe the R with the OM will die in the next 6 months or so. I hope I am right. In the meantime I will TRY and get on with my life.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
