Good stuff. I'm very proud of you. She'll figure things out if only you don't do it for her. And you have to make sure you are with your kids when you have them. Don't go out and party. Be a good Daddy and really spend that time with them, that way your kids know who the priority is when they are with you. If there's some big event, like a wedding that's understandable that you get someone to watch them. But otherwise, be with them.
And I have taken my kid to plenty of baby showers.
