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Ok, I was thinking about this and something just isn't adding up--are you really saying that your libido was re-awakened by a pair of SHOES?? This sounds so odd! Are you sure it wasn't that, on some level, you knew you were starting to lose her and it jolted you back to reality?




Hmmmm. You all think alike. This is exactly what she said. She said I knew it was coming to an end so that's why I started to get interested again. If that's the case, it would have to been deep inside. I didn't mention that this happened during a period when the kids were gone. This hasn't happened for a long time. Back when, we used to go at it anywhere. As far as the shoes, I will admit, I have a foot fetish as well. So there. I can't answer your theory. It just hit me like that.

I have another question, is lying from the W part of this. She has asked me on a couple occasions do I have a girlfriend which of course the answer is no. She said several of her guys friends said no man can go this long without cheating. Well I asked her how many people who know me think this. She then blurted out her best friends name. Well I bumped into the best friend today and she said she said not such thing. I believe her.I've also caught her in a couple more lies where this friend(a guy who I don't trust) said I would @#$#$. Well she reversed on that and said he meant I would try to get some from her. This friend has also suggested that me and her best friend are fooling around.

A couple people are telling me she is making up this stuff to get to me. Another example. She told me a vendor came in and asked her out for a date and gave her a bunch of roses. Well, why tell me this. I just told her this was proof that she was beautiful and moved on. But she couldn't produce the flowers.

Is the hurt that deep that she would lie like this or is this some attempt to make me jealous?? again.