Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

I completely understand what everyone is saying now. Just journaling for myself again.

I got a call this morning I didn't pick up. I then texted her around 2 if she had called me. She said that my son dailed my number by accident.(yeah right)

I just got a phone call from her. It was from my FIL house. I let it ring to go to voicemail first. And got another call right afterwards. I thought it was really my FIL calling sadly it was just the wife.

M:Hello

W:Hey what are you doing tonight? (very calm voice now)

M:I'm going out why?

W:Your going out?(in a tone like huh? Really?) Well I was wondering if you could watch the kids tonight so I can go to the baby shower if you weren't doing anything.

M: Um why can't you bring the kids with you? I'm sure your friends are going to want to play with our kids there?

W:Because I won't be able to enjoy myself.

M:I'm sorry I have plans already

W:Ok...fine bye (sounded very dissapointed)

I think its starting to sink in to her. I feel like I have the power now. It feels really good to have the upper hand. I'm just going to tone things down a bit and like what everyone has said to not point things out to her. That is my goal this week till my next IC. I'm also going to be a lot more calm and not have my emotions take over me when talking and texting her this week. It hasn't turned fully around yet but I feel like I'm making really good progress.