I'm thinking/guessing he just sent those texts to give me kind of like an "all clear" maybe? Or to try and smooth things over with me quickly? Or who the heck freaking knows???

Is there any point in trying to ask H about the identity of the "friend"? Only because if it was OW, that was a clear boundary violation. And not that he would be honest with me anyways.

I think I would start conversation with - About the other day when you said there was a friend with you. I am just curious as to why you had to close my door if it was just a "friend" who was with you?

Or is he just trying to mess with my head more now because of my pulling back and head-messing with him over the last week or so?

I am utterly confused right now and am not going to read into anymore of this any further. It will all be let go. But I just needed to get it out so it doesn't consume the rest of my weekend.


Last edited by aflowergurlie; 10/24/09 09:16 PM.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids
We were M-12Y T-15Y
5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms
01/10 I filed for D / H moved out
09/16/10 Divorced