The rest of the story: My lover and I fell in love. My lover got pregnant. I told my previous long term partner I was leaving. My lover had a miscarriage, which made us closer than ever. We left town and started a new life. She got pregnant again. She started having a problem with sex. It's nearly four years and two healthy children later. Our life is the best I can imagine it, except for one thing - she doesn't want to f*ck me. We are trying to sort it out. She finally accepts that she has to do something. She is afraid she can't.