You have got to detach. You have got to stop being so available to him. When he says he doesn't need or want you say nothing. Is that really new to you? Is it really news?
Plan your life and do things. He either will want to be with you all or he won't.
Pay attention to what works and what doesn't. What gets a positive reaction from him and what doesn't. But you have to live your life for you and then for your children. Stop living it for him.
