So, somehow the D's have to learn that they aren't responsible for WAW's happiness. Sort of like you had to learn the same thing. D18 can probably see it, it sounds like she does. A lot harder for D14.
Yuck.
Yeah, D18 can get / stay away from her when she's in these 'moods' since she lives with me. D14 is sort of stuck in the messes since she lives with mom most of the time.
Last night D14 just started venting some more about WAW, OM and just the lifestyle she is stuck in. She started getting down on OM because he is a gardener / landscaper and I found myself defending the profession, but not him, because I don't think she should be judging someone based on their profession. How weird is that?
What I've gotten out of her venting is that her mom will drop conversations with D14 if OM comes over, or will disrespect her needs in favor of his needs. She's not mean or angry, just disrespectful
Now, this is what's weird. During this venting I asked her how often these 'things' happen? She says that OM is hardly ever over when D14 is there. Most of these things happened 'months' ago.
So, she's been stewing for a long time.
During this vent her tone of voice wasn't so much hurt as it was angry / sarcastic. And after her vents she seemed a lot more relaxed.
Last night D14 and her friend and I went to see Astro Boy. It was a fun movie. Life is getting better. WAW will bw back tomorrow night.
